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Couples
1 Corinthians 13:4-7
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
Matthew 19:4-6
"'Haven't you read,' he replied, 'that at the beginning the Creator 'made them male and female,' and said, 'For this reason, a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh'? So they are no longer two, but one flesh. Therefore, what God has joined together, let no one separate.'"
Leave your mother and father and become one
What was done in the family home previous is no longer done in the marriage home the two decides to develop and live as husband and wife and create their own family ways unless the two both agree tradition some or all can be honored in the new home.
Couples have to consistently and joyfully be a healthy additional support in each other's life; it is not the partners responsibility to work harder to heal their spouses' emotions. Each have to care for their emotional health and protect the healthy emotions, behavior and privacy of the relationship, at the same time: Yes, at the same time. Yes, at the same time because one spouse may have to care for their emotions the marriage does not take the back seat ever. Yes, care for yourself and your marriage at the same time. Doing this will help the individual spouse emotions.
It is a constant effort but yet fun to grow together. In other words, there should be healthy games and poems the two share together. These are cerebral games because the mind is always triggered. This is to relax the mind and help each other become comfortable in vulnerable times in life when needed or not. This environment helps to bring the couple together and helps to build trust including an understanding of how the spouse thinks and knowing the things that are important to the spouse. This also helps to alleviate temptations of boredom and not seeing the spouse unique attractiveness as years continue. This provides comfort for the couple to know they have an active spouse in their life that care about their needs even the small cares.
Money does not have to be an issue, romantic practical couples enjoy taking a walk in the neighborhood, or in an area you enjoy eating ice cream, theoretical couples may enjoy word games they uniquely create for their relationship they can enjoy, practical verbal couples will also enjoy endearing games that encourage each other's love. If you're a creative couple you can make these creative games to your liking with a piece of paper and Ink Pen. Don't lose the joy in your relationship; whichever you consider joy.
Intimacy is not to go unnoticed or unspoken. It is major. If there are problems in this area it is important for the spouses to talk to each other vulnerably and listen. You will always know if your conversation is in the right tone when you ask God if you have honestly heard and accepted your spouse's feelings, and conversation. You have to take this important time for each other sometimes this activity will end an argument this is how powerful intimacy is when married; physical intimacy is a gift for the Christian married. It is accepted by God, with your spouse loving making is not an act of sin. Couples that are holier than God have lost their place as a child of God in their anointing as a human to enjoy this activity with their spouse because they should. Become yourself and when married enjoy All of the marriage privileges and blessings.